Date a Guy who is not Prince Charming.
Date a guy who is not Prince Charming. Date a guy who spends more time working on the few inches between his two ears, than on his abdominal muscles. Date a guy who is not as obsessed with the notion of perfect happiness, as with the interpretation of it. Date a guy who lives in a real world, with its traffic problems and bad governments and water crisis and fidelity issues, and is still, hoping to make a beautiful life.
Date a guy who is not Prince Charming . Date a guy who is not waiting to fall in love with Cindrella , and dusnt mind if you wear braces, or have the Bridget Jones Syndrome. Date a guy who is real, with follies he is not ashamed of embracing. He will let you make mistakes ,and will never hate you for them. He will know that perfection is after all, only a colloquial discourse. He will live happily through your sultry/ depressed/irritated/cramp-driven/imbecile/silly afternoons, and learn to deal with the mass hysteria you come with. Only because he knows that a part of having you is learning to embrace your eccentricities. When you enter a party, he will hold your hand and walk in feeling like the luckiest man on earth, even if you look like a hungry traveller from Antarctica. And in the midst of a crowd of a hundred Scarlett Johanssons , his eyes will still seek you.
Date a guy who is not Prince Charming, for he wont wake up every morning , dying to stay Prince Charming. He will hence, find time to read, travel, seek and love. He will live without the burden of being the smartest, the funniest, the tallest and fittest, the coolest et al. He will go about his own work in discerning peace, without bothering to judge people around him, and in the evenings, he will meet you over coffee in a small cafeteria overlooking the sea. Over coffee,he will tell you how his day has been, a discussion that will hover more around the world at large, than him alone. He will look into your eyes as you tell him how your day was, and those two guys who walk past staring at you, won’t distract him.
Date a guy who is not Prince Charming, for he will be fearless. He will take one day at a time, and not lose his head over the perturbing proposition of tomorrow’s horoscope. When disaster strikes, he will jump in with you and ask you to hold on. Even if he cannot sail you across, he will stay with you in the freezing cold.
Date a guy who is not Prince Charming, for he will know how important it is to dream aggressively. On some lazy afternoon, he will tell you what his passions are, and how he intends to go about chasing them. He will make sure you know that companionship is much more than sharing the mundane details of everyday life ; that it entails sharing the fire in your separate bellies. He will push you to pursue your unrealistic dreams, and someday, when you stand on the edge of the cliff, scared as a sheep, he will give you that last push needed. Only however, to meet you in mid air, perhaps more scared than you are.
Date a guy who is not Prince Charming, for sometimes in life, he will let you be the winner. He will stand and clap for you someday when the world acknowledges you, just as he stands backstage and smiles now before every show of yours. When it is his chance under the spotlight, he will make a subtle mention of you in his thanksgiving speech, just enough to make you realise that you are the only living witness to his slow mutiny with success and failure.
Date a guy who is not Prince Charming, for he will know that no one is born with the right to have a wonderful life. He will know what it takes to make one of those wonderful lives, and the patience it entails. Someday, brick by brick, he will build one with you,and in that wonderful imperfect life, he will live with you ever after, happy for most parts.